Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Random Ramblings While Waiting for the Bus

So I was waiting for Jen and Jess to meet me at the university to go on our first trip together to the internat (the orphanage), but since I got there really early, I sat down and started to write the following in my little 2-hryvia notebook...

The first thing I noticed as I opened this notebook end of sentence to do some journaling is the fact that the red margins are located on the right side of the page! That’s really annoying. My brain doesn’t like it, especially since I feel compelled to write over the red line and that makes my sense of orderliness squirm! Hahaha. It’s OK. I’ll get over it.

I arrived at the university just a few minutes past 11:00 AM, accompanied by Krystina and her friend Ola. That three of us to the crowded and smelly bus from the Center to get here, although surprisingly eat seem to bother my two ‘escorts’ more than me. Hehehe. I was told about the horrors of taking bus from Jess and Jen, so I knew what to expect. It was nothing unlike taking the bus in Mexico City, but then again, the last time I did that was many years ago, I never really had much need for it since my parents owned a car.

So here I am, sitting on a bench in front of the pedagogical university at Ternopil, waiting for Jess and Jen to go on our first visit together to the Internat. They’re supposed to be here at noon, but I hope they are early so that I can go with them I thought to buy something to supplement my lunch, since all I have packed is a bottle of water and 6 baked mini-buns (called ‘peroges’), some filled with mashed potatoes and some with jam. We have been advised NOT to eat the food at the internat, since their cooking practices are not very hygienic. Once the girls finish eating, all the left-overs are compiled together and thrown back into the pot, only to be served again on the next meal. The girls, of course, are used to each other’s germs, haha, but for us this would most likely send us on a trip straight to a week of diarrhoea, something we want to avoid at all costs, needless to say!!

As I sit here, I continue to be amazed at the way people dress here. It is as if everyone was about to walk down a cat-walk. At least this is true for most women. I have never seen so many heels and stilettos outside of a fancy club on a Friday night. They all sport very trendy tops and bottoms as well, although some people just don’t know when to draw the line, hahaha. There was one girl walking around in metallic, electric blue jeans. Point made? OK. I must look very homely to everyone here wearing my comfy flats, black pants and a fusia vi-neck :P What I have the hardest thing understanding, though, is how these girls manage to walk in their suicide 10-inch stilettos up and down the pebble-&-crack-ridden sidewalks, which to me seem like death traps in the best of cases, even on my flat shoes. It must really be an art! Now, just so it doesn’t sound like I am just criticising, I admit everyone looks very nice all the time, which is nice.

On a different topic, I am starting to pick up some Ukrainian words, but I still feel horribly illiterate. Krystina and Ola, as well as Orest’s aunt, were laughing at the way I pronounce “diakuyu” (Thank you), but I think I know what they are laughing at, and I think I know how to say it correctly now, hehe. I can’t wait for my lessons to begin on Tuesday so that I can stop putting my foot in my mouth! Hahaha.

Now, time for some more randomness… I stopped writing for a few minutes to watch people, and in comes this man wearing an orange work vest (probably a janitor or gardener), carrying a HUGE sickle. Yes, I said sickle. Like the one the Grim Reaper carries. I have never seen one of those in real life before, but this is the most random place to see one… kind of scary really.

I hope I don’t sound superficial when I say this, but another interesting person walked by whose appearance called my attention. It was a lady of roughly 50-60 years wearing an olive-coloured suit, whose hair was died bright orange. That is actually a very common, yet very ‘interesting’ feature that can be seen around here. Women like to due their hair in the most unnatural rendition of what could have been somewhat naturally-occurring colours. That is to say, you won’t see a woman with blue hair, but you will see TONS of women with bright red, burgundy, orange, rust, and blonde hair. But when I say red, I mean Tootsie-Pop red (if you don’t know what a Tootsie-Pop is, you either had no childhood, or grew up outside North America, haha). When I say burgundy, I mean peony-bloom burgundy. Rust is literally rusted-tin-can rust. And orange tends to be either a pumpkin or orange-carrot juice hue. ‘Nough said. Maybe I should do that. No. No, I shouldn’t.

And yet another random thought… Here they call me “Myrah”. Not “Miriam”, not “Miri”, not even “Maryu”, but “Myrah”. I’m not sure why, but I think Myrowslav Tataryn told them that was my name. It is probably just easier for them to pronounce it this way, according to the phonetics of the Ukrainian language. It used to get under my skin (those of you who know me know I am slightly picky about my name, haha), but I have learned some humility and now I have grown accustomed to it :P

So that is it for my random ramblings of the day.

NOW, like I promised in my last post, it is time to tell you about the Internat… Day 1…

Sunday, Continued :)

I guess I will begin by sharing with you some pictures of the Church I went to for Pentecost Sunday, as well as the Mass itself and the children who did their First Communion! (These are especially for you, Curtis, hehehe) By the way, I think if you click on the pictures you will be taken to another window where you can see them in full :D



The next pictures are of Krystina (standing on the right with the long hair and the white dress), and of 'Mama Ola', who was singing in the choir (wearing a red blazer over a black dress).



Now that you have endulged yourselves a little (hahaha) let's move on with what I was saying before. after Mass, I went with Orest to the store to buy some groceries, and later in the afternoon (after lunch), he accompanied me to buy my cellphone. By the way, if you don't have it yet and would like to have it, please send me an email and I will be glad to send it to you.

So anyway, I bought the least expensive phone I could find, which actually was still nice, and later we went to a different store to buy the card and the service for it. There we met this really cool Nigerian guy named Inkah. He heard us speaking in English and started talking to us. Apparently, there are a lot of English-speaking Nigerians in the area. I had seen African people around, but I had no idea where they were from nor that they spoke English.

Getting my phone was very exciting, since I no longer felt disconnected from the world, hahaha. This might sound funny to both those of you who know me well, and those of you who don't, but this is the first cellphone I have ever owned. For those of you who don't know me well... I have never wanted to have a cell because I didn't want to pay for one and always be available to everyone, hahaha. And for those of you who know me well, you are probably surprised that I got a cellphone at all, since I am always so adamant at not getting one, hehehe. But trust me, working in a foreign country for 3 months really makes a cellphone a necessity. Myrowslav and Joanne were awesome for suggesting I that I should get one with the grant. It was sych a relief to get the cell since I could finally communicate with Jess and Jen in a much faster and convenient way. So with my new little Nokia, I was all set up for Sunday :D Unfortunately, because getting the phone took so long, we did not have time to get the Internet cable for my computer, but I was happy with at least having gotten the phone.


After getting the phone I was able to walk about the Center again and take a few more pictures. I took a picture of two little boys who were playing in the fountain... I thought it was the perfect picture of innocence.


I am also starting to take pics of what Orest calls "cr*p life" hehehe. Basically, they are pictures of what "real life" is like, a.k.a. rough. An example of this is the ATM machine slot in the following photo... I will post some of my "cr*p life" pictures once in a while, hehe, I hope you enjoy them ;)

Next I will tell you about the real reason why I am here... my first 'Internat' experience! (Pum,pum,pum!! *suspense music in the background....*) ;)

Monday, June 1, 2009

Pentecost Sunday

Sunday was another interesting day as well. I accompanied the Muriy's to Ukrainian Catholic Mass, and it was an important one since it was Pentecost and there were First Communions being celebrated. The church was nice and the ceremony was nice too. The Mass was practically sung in its entirety, and the choir was actually pretty good also! It was like a choral concert! Orest's mom sings in the choir, and she is very good. We stand for most of the service, which is a bit longer than the Roman Catholic, but it actually goes by fast. It was lovely to see the children all dressed up, receiving Communion, and after the Mass, saying a series of little poems (whose meaning I do not know). Krystina was very happy since she had been the one who prepared them for their First Communion, so the whole congregation was very proud of her also.

So that was nice, BUT... I really, really, REALLY missed my own Church. I missed the familiarity of the Roman Catholic Mass, even though I know there are the same elements. I missed being able to understand the readings and the homily. But most of all, what I missed the MOST was receiving the Eucharist!! :( Since I was not able to get to a Roman Catholic Church to receive a dispensation, I was not able to receive Communion, which left me with a horrible void. I made a spiritual Communion (for those of you who do not know what that is, look it up! :D), and tried to pray on my own. It was hard though, with the music, the paintings, the crowd... I was just to 'sensorily' overwhelmed! Too many icons and pictures. I am more used to a simpler type of church, but it was still beautiful nevertheless. I tried to do what Curtis and Raph would do, and focus on the images to meditate on the life of Christ. It worked a bit, but I still felt like a lot was missing in my Sunday. I almost felt like I didn't go to Mass at all, and being Pentecost Sunday it was kind of upsetting. Nevertheless, I could appreciate the presence of God among us in the Church, and I felt content with that. I know it would have been different if I had actually been able to understand the language. Then I could have truly appreciated it the way I wish I had. That will come though, so I just have to be patient.

Orest is here so I will have to add the pictures later and finish that thought. If you pray, please pray for me! Miss you all, love you all.

Saturday with Jess and Alex

Saturday was an interesting day. The day started wonderfully with the smell of freshly-baked buns, which they also call 'peroges', some of which have mashed potatoes in them, while the others have jam (yummm). When I got out of the shower Mama Ola and BahBah were diligently working on this wonderful batch of delicious buns! (see Picture on Left)











After breakfast, I set out to walk towards the Center by myself for the first time. I was supposed to meet with Jess and Orest was supposed to come with me originally, but he had to stay behind to help his uncle build a fence around the house, so I had to venture on my own. I was a little nervous at first, but it worked out fine. I have a good sense of direction, so walked to the theathre with no difficulties.





















Jenn had gone on an excursion with a few of the students in their group, so and met up with Jess and Alexander, another Canadian student currently doing a short-term study program here. They took me around the Center, and ALL the way around a lake and onto a huge forest, which we only explored minimally.The walk was very nice. They have a lot of beautiful parks around here.





















A lot of people like to fish in the ponds and the lake that is near the center. But man, I don't understand how that is even possible. Overall the water seems rather clean, but when you get a close look at the water around the shore, it is very filthy. Of course, you wouldn't catch me dead eating fish, but I think you would have to kill me twice before you could get me to eat the fish that live in this water! Yikes! Nevertheless, it was nice to watch the people fishing. On the water you can see lily pads with some beautiful yellow flowers. You can also see hundreds of snails stuck to rocks underwater, and I even got to see a number of bullfrogs (not my mose precious encounter, haha)


As we walked around, we also noticed that there seems to be a playground in every corner of them hahaha. In fact, however, there are some pretty sketchy playgrounds, not because they are broken, but because they are sooooo dangerous!! My gosh!! There was this insane rocket-slide which was probably three times my height! But that's not even the scaries part. The scary part is the angle of the slide... just check out this picture!! Jess actually ventured to go up there and try it out. I was content enough to watch her scream, safely from the ground, hehehe. The kids around here, though, they took it like it was nothing! They went up and down and up and down, happy as ever... Hahaha.


Once we walked all around the lake, we came up to a forest, so we walked on a beautiful road sourounded by a wonderful canopy of trees... it all seemed so enchanted. Also, we found a bunch of chickens just randomly walking around in the forest, hahaha. We tried to take a picture with them but they kept running away from us, so I was only able to get a picture of them alone.

On our way back we stopped at a grocery store to buy some food, and after that we walked through another park and stayed there for a long time. We had to cross this horribly unstable suspension bridge.
I am not one for suspention bridges, but Alexander started stomping on it to make me scared and that made it even worse Hahahaha... Call me chicken, but the boards were falling apart and there was not much for a rail... I just tried not to look down at the green water 10 feet below us... Never again!! Hahaha...

After the walk, Jess went home and Alexander was nice enough to walk me home so I wouldn't have to go by myself. The are a lot of churches here as well, which I love. Most of them have big domes, and many of them have green roofs, like this one. I also like the streets at th Center, since they are very pituresque. As we walked back, Alexander and I ran onto a group of children on roller blades. It looked like they were a part of a club, and many of them were doing tricks, which was fun to watch. From then on, I think I got a lot more confident and familiar with the streets to walk around by myself more easily, which is great. Plus, I don't mind walking. It gives me time to think and there are always interesting things to see... People to watch, flowers to admire, etc.





On my way home there is always this little dog that chases around cars. I find it kid of funny. I also enjoy taking pictures of the flowers around here... maybe I will post some of them later.

Man, there is so much more to tell and so little time... I still have to tell you all about Sunday, which is a whole story in itself, and of course, what happened today, namely my first visit to the Internat... I will probably have to do that on my own computer since Orest is coming back soon (still no internet on my computer, which is fine), and then transfer it to the blog tomorrow after I come back from the internat. It wouldn't take so long if it wasn't for the pictures, but I think it is worth the wait since the pics make the blog much more interesting. Anyway, thanks for reading thus far... Please feel free to leave comments and rate the blog! Love you all, miss you all. God bless!

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Cat Fight!


Wow! As was sitting here working on school and on the blog, I heard this horrible cry of a cat. It just kept going... It sounds like a baby crying. It is aweful! I am pretty sure it is Orest's cat too. And then, all of the sudden there was not one cat, but a bunch! And now I can hear them fighting outside the window! They even knocked some glass over! Hahaha... Random, I know, but it gave me an excuse to procrastinate and blog, hahaha. Although in all fairness, I think maybe I should go to bed. I was waiting for Orest to ask him a few questions about tomorrow, but I get the feeling he will be back still later. Oh well. Tomorrow should be fun!

Friday, May 29, 2009

My Body Hates Me, Haha


You'd think that after so many days my body would be used to the time difference, but for some reason today I was so tired that I fell asleep for a big chunk of the eveningwhile I was "Studying" Hahaha. I had a nightmare and now I am as awake as a farm rooster on a Monday morning!

I saw this picture and I just laughed... This is DEFINITELY what my guardian angel must be thinking, hahahahaha!

Photos

So far I have been unable to find a way to add a photo album to this blog, but here are at least a few preliminary pictures :) It takes for ever to upload them this way, but it'll do for now :D

If you want to see the whole album, go to:

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2243418&id=122610538&l=621665bd95